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Genetic Disease or Compulsibe Behavior?

Posted on 30.10.2006 at 20:30
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Genetic Disease or Compulsive Behavior?

In many families today, there is alcohol involved in some way. Usually, the parents are the ones who drink, but sometimes the children will drink illegally. When you look at it, children are more likely to become alcoholics if their parents are or were addicted to alcohol. Though some argue against it, alcoholism is genetically passed down from parents to their children and it causes domestic and many other types of violence.


Some people do not believe that alcoholism is passed down genetically, but it has been proven that it does. The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism says, “Since alcoholism does not follow the simple rules of Mendelian inheritance in multi-generational pedigrees, it was clear that alcoholism is a genetically complex disorder, influenced by multiple genes…that interact in an unknown fashion with each other and with similarly unknown environmental factors to produce the disease.” ("Alcoholism Has a Genetic Basis"). This is saying that this disease is not a one hundred percent result of a person’s environment, but that it relies heavily upon the genes that someone inherits from their parents. “It appears…that children’s drinking behavior is influenced primarily by genetic factors and by environmental factors other than their parents’ alcohol abuse.” This is saying that even though your parents might not drink, you could be at risk of becoming an alcoholic if your parents or grandparents had the genes for alcoholism.


Alcoholism can cause domestic violence when someone is under the influence of alcohol because his or her inhibitions will slacken. “Alcoholism has been associated with arguments, fights, brawls, rape, spousal and child abuse and even suicide.” (Youngerman 47). Scientists have several theories about how alcoholism affects the brain. One theory is the disinhibition model that states, “Alcohol chemically blurs or deadens the part of the brain that inhibit, or hold back, one’s first impulsive reactions.” (Youngerman 50). Alcohol can cause normally calm and peaceful people to become angry and violent. Normally, when a child sees a parent committing an act of violence, they think that it is fine or acceptable so when they grow up they think it’s perfectly fine to treat someone like that, and its not. When a child who was brought up in an abusive alcoholic environment they are more likely to treat their family the same way they were treated when they have a family of their own because it is the only thing they know, and he or she would think it is acceptable.


Along with domestic violence, people under the influence of alcohol are capable of causing others a great deal of harm to someone, sometimes even taking someone else’s life. For example, “Young, pretty, 17-year-old Donn’elle McGraw, who was in the back seat of the other car, was killed instantly” when Casey McCary Bloom’s car violently crashed into her friend’s car (“Drunk Driving Brings a Lifetime of Pain”). Because a person decided to drink and drive, a young innocent person’s life ended. Casey is “facing 21 years in prison for one mistake I [he] made and regret—to drink and drive.” (“Drunk Driving Brings a Lifetime of Pain”). Almost every person who kills or injures someone while under the influence of alcohol regrets it when he or she wakes up in a jail cell the next morning as Casey McCary Bloom did. Because of these types of actions, the act of taking ones life without realizing it, I am convinced that alcoholism is a disease.


So, is alcoholism a disease or not? Edward Dreyfus says, “The disease model has been overused and distorted to the extent that many alcoholics and other emotionally disturbed people incorrectly believe that they are physically “sick” and need medical rather than psychological help to overcome their addictions.” Many think that alcoholism is not a disease at all, just someone who needs help overcoming a problem. “I object to the idea that compulsive behavior is a disease. It does not matter whether there is a chemical imbalance that leaves these people vulnerable to … drinking, this disease concept is not appropriate for the compulsive behavior.” Dreyfus says that alcoholism is not a disease, but a compulsive behavior. He says that the desire for alcohol is not a disease, but something that can be controlled by the person suffering from it.


With this information, why do so many consider alcoholism a disease? Merriam-Webster dictionary defines a disease as a “condition of the living animal…that impairs normal functioning and is typically manifested by distinguishing signs and symptoms”. When someone is under the influence of alcohol, there are obvious signs and symptoms. Some of them include loss of control, anti-social behavior, and possibly the most famous of them all: the hangover. Alcoholism may not be a viral, fungal or an infectious disease, but it does alter the state of your mind and your actions. You could find yourself doing things that you would not normally do while you were sober.


Although some could consider social drinking a compulsive behavior, where one can simply stop drinking after one drink, alcoholism is not compulsive. When an alcoholic has a drink, he or she feels that it is necessary to continue drinking until they are under the complete influence of alcohol and are unable to control their actions. Since alcohol affects everyone differently, (some will be a “calm drunk” while others could be a “mean/angry drunk”) there is no way to prevent it other than abstaining from alcohol completely. Having one drink could be deadly for a person who suffers from alcoholism. It could cost them their lives, their families and their life as they once knew it as well as taking the life of an innocent person.

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What the hell

Posted on 23.09.2006 at 14:45
I feel...: crushed
Listenin to...: Dance With the Devil by Breaking Benjamin
Today is my moms birthday. My cousin asked me on Monday if I could do something this weekend since Monday was my birthday. I told her no because my mom, dad and I were going to do something, I don't know what, for my mom's birthday. Fucking she goes to an AA meeting and then she goes over to her friends house to help her fucking pack. What the fuck. We were going to do something today, like go to the movies, or go bowling or something! But no, she goes to her friends house. I just called her because we were supposed to get my bed this morning and then do whatever later. She says she'll be home in a COUPLE OF HOURS. I asked her if she wanted to do anything tonight for her birthday, she said "No I figure what I'm doing now is what I'm doing for it." I'm so fucking pissed. I haven't seen my cousin in like three years and I blew off that for my mom, and now she blows her family off for a friend. Am I wrong to be mad?

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Idiot

Posted on 31.07.2006 at 06:26
I hate people like littleboy6326 on PPT. Anyone see any of his responses on PPT? A new person with like...3 posts asked a questions and this is how he responded

How old are you? 3?

www.neopets.com

Search around.

He (littleboy6326) posted a question and the same new person got this response

No, leave my thread alone.




I just want to fucking smack people like this.

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Got this from PPT

Posted on 04.04.2006 at 22:02
Current Location: My room
I feel...: contemplative
Listenin to...: Simon by Lifehouse
http://kevan.org/nohari?name=absentshadow and http://kevan.org/johari?name=absentshadow

Please do it :)

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Lalala

Posted on 20.03.2006 at 16:54
I feel...: cranky
Listenin to...: Lips of an Angle by Hinder
So I re-did my LJ kinda, whatcha think? Thanks Nessa for the icon btw :)

So last night I went to go to bed and found out that I couldn't sleep. Ok put a movie in. Got to sleep and woke up about an hour later. Went back to sleep, woke up an hour later and so on for the rest of the night. Great, got up at 5:00 am, only becuase I couldn't go back to sleep. Played a PS2 game for a while and then started getting ready for school. Got in the car to drive to school and it starts pouring down raining, insanely so. Got to the girl I pick up every morning's house, and go to get back in the car and hit my head on the door as I get in, WONDERFUL. Didn't hurt too much right then, but it was just the shock of "Wow..I hit my head on the car door" thing. Get to school and go to put my trumpet up in my locker and discover that we do in fact have a student leader meeting...though no one bothered to call me to inform me of it. GREAT. To this day I've yet to show up to a student leader meeting on time...always late I am. Go to the Commons after the meeting and see that Mitch isn't there :( More about him later. Go to first period and find that my geometry teacher decided to take another day off. Go to second period and find out that Mr. Howard's(my band director) wife had the baby and its a baby girl named Madison (I wonder if it has anything to do with the fact that he was in the Madison Scouts....). Hm anyway. Third period, nothing happens. Fourth period I got to do my lab report on my plant that didn't grow...wonderful. Nothing really happened in 5th execpt me noticing my foot is starting to hurt in the exact same place that it hurt last year(or the year before I can't remember). It was hard going down the stairs to go to lunch. At lunch I finished reading the second chapter of the book we have to read for English. Sixth we had a quiz over the second chapter of the book we have to read for English. Seventh we got to do a PFT. Physical Fitness Test. It sucked. We had to do sit ups, push ups and run. I did great on the sit ups and push ups(only had to do like 35 push ups and I did them in under a minute) and my foot was starting to hurt more after the push ups. Got up to go run and told the dude who was going to be taking the time down that he might as well just put down "fail" becaues my foot hurt. And then some kid comes up and starts complaining that I just use my foot as an excuse. Baaaaad idea because I said fuck it and ran anyway. Got to my thrid lap and said fuck it I can't run. So when I got to the start/finish line I layed down and cried for a bit. Because it hurt so much. Next to Mitch, Blake and Michael. They probably didn't realize I was crying but I told Blake afterwards and he said he was sorry. Walk up to get my stuff and my coach says "So only two laps Tamara?" And I told him "I did more then two" and just walked away. Got home and put ice on my foot and took 2 different pain meds. I'm feeing better now.

The end of my eventful first day back from spring break. What a joy.

Enjoy some song lyrics by Hinder, song is Lips Of An Angle

Honey why are you calling me so late
It's kinda hard to talk right now

Honey why are you crying is everything okay
I gotta whisper cause I
can't be too loud
Well, my girls in the next room
Sometimes I wish she
was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your
voice saying my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel

Hearing those words it makes me weak
And I never wanna say goodbye

But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel


It's funny that you're calling me tonight
And yes I've dreamt of you
too
And does he know you're talking to me
Will it start a fight
No I
don't think she has a clue
Well my girls in the next room
Sometimes I
wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to
hear your voice saying my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips
of an angel
Hearing those wordsa it makes me weak
And I never wanna say
goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an
angel

It's really good to hear your voice saying my name
It sounds
so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes
me weak
And I never wanna say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be
faithful
With the lips of an angel
(And I never wanna say goodbye)

But girl you make it so hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

Honey why are you calling me so late

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Finally

Posted on 23.01.2006 at 17:00
I feel...: happy
Listenin to...: 10,000 Fists by Disturbed
Finally, after going to the DPS five times, I got my permit. Test was pretty easy, the waiting wasn't. Anyway, I get to drive soon so yay :)

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Well

Posted on 04.01.2006 at 13:46
I feel...: tired
Listenin to...: Crossfade- The Unknown
Happy New Years everyone! Hope you had a good one. Its been a while since I last posted. Problems with Mitch are pretty much over, thank God. On New Years Eve I went to Books-a-Million and got Knife of Dreams by Robert Jordan, book 11 in the Wheel of Time. Its pretty good so far, I just started reading it yesterday. Half of the Prologue was boring as hell, I wanted to skip it but I didn't. Usually that stuff comes up later in the book.

Anyway, I went to the movies with Mitch and Diane on New Years Eve. We saw Fun With Dick and Jane. Pretty funny movie. Then when my dad was dropping off Diane, Mitch and I finally met Keagen, the perfect guy, happens to like her, but shes not sure why she doesn't want a relationship with him. He left last nigth to go to Germany for the Army. Went to a party after that and blew shit up, it was pretty fun. Got home about 2 went to sleep at 2:30ish.

I went to the movies with Mitch again Monday, and we saw Cronicals of Narnia. It was pretty good, the beginning almost made me cry though. They could have cut some of the parts of the movie a little shorter though, it was a little annoying to sit there watching two girls cry for 5 minutes. Also the little kids kept saying "What happened?" in the middle of the movie, really loud. Annoying little brats.

I go back to school tomorrow. Yay. More hell. I've actually practiced on my trumpet this break. Granted it was only once, but I'm going to go play till my lips hurt so I don't sound like absolute crap tomorrow. I actually want to go back to school. All this sitting here not doing anything is boring me to tears. Sure staying up till midnight then waking up at noon is fun, but it gets boring after a while. I need to do stuff, other then read, every day. Hopefully my Spanish won't be too bad tomorrow. Eh and English, the damned man probably has some weird assignment for us to do. I hope some people in my Geometry class have learned to pay attention a little better, because their stupidity is close to frustrating me. I mean, if you sit in the front row, the answers writen on the board, and you STILL can't tell the teacher what the answer is, I think you deserve to be in the special classes. *sigh* I'm just glad I didn't have any homework over break, that would have sucked.

I always kick my dads ass at the game I got him for Christmas. :P Tis quite fun. I need to go play that so I can be farther along then he is in the individual compitition thing. I'll see ya'll in another few months with my next update. haha.

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Oh the joys of the internet

Posted on 28.06.2004 at 18:09
I feel...: irritated
Listenin to...: Confessions Part 2 by Usher
Well. Bob posted his side of what happened at ppt last year back when the whole quote site thing. So, for all you non members of QT, here are all the pages plus the pages that were within the posts. :) Sorry the page quality is kinda eh.

Page one.

Page two

Page three

Page four

Transcript on page four


Page five

PPT Topic page 1

PPT Topic page 2

PPT Topic page 3

PPT Topic page 4

PPT Topic page 5

PPT Topic page 6


Page six

Page seven

Page eight

Just informing you on this "truth".

Going friends on this. Some people annoy me too much.

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